Coming back for me has been a redefinition of my SL. No obligations--not even parties or building or participating in anything. Maybe in time. Maybe not. No nothing that gives me the slightest inkling of anxiety or stress. I come in and talk with Phin, Dia, Lunar...my friends. I leave. Simple as that. The only exception is my attending the town meeting in Steelhead. That consistency of community every Tuesday night is nice.
But sometimes I come in to do the equivalent of the pic above...to just sit and listen quietly to music in my skybox.
And that's enough.